Bilibili Old Ming's Tips and Tricks 2:#
https://www.bilibili.com/cheese/play/ep250414
- To do something, you must do it perfectly - perfectionism is fragile; allow yourself to write a few pages of rubbish first.
- Feeling unprepared, lacking resources and abilities - beware of the "pseudo-preparation" excuse; ability is not fixed, it grows with action.
- There will always be an amazing potential outbreak at the last moment - think about why you want to do this, for your own growth, starting now will immediately lead to growth.
- Unable to bear the responsibility of failure - compare what is more "failure", dragging on without starting is more serious and terrifying than others' dissatisfaction.
- Afraid of disappointing others - "self-worth is always independent of others' evaluation."
- The greater the pressure, the better the performance - if the most effective driving force is pressure, it will definitely be painful, anxious, and tense in the long run; pressure is an external driving force (not internal), which will reduce the fun and satisfaction of doing things.
- (+) Resist external temptations - generally, they will automatically disappear before the deadline, but as long as it is not the last day, they will not go away.
- Pretend to advance the "deadline" by one day, but it is difficult to deceive oneself because it is an open card. Isn't it always said that the subconscious is working?
- Perhaps a subjective reason is not wanting to "extra" pressure oneself. Hmm! Maybe this is the more real thought deep down.
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